LOVE
When we talk about loving someone just the way they are, there's a lot of questions appear in my mind.
Did people really do that?
Loving someone just the way they are, the way they laugh, the way they think, the way they talk, and the way they live.
Or people actually loving someone just the way they supposed to be, or maybe the way they want to be?
Loved by someone just the way we are is mean we have to do nothing to make them love us isn't it?
Just nothing. Simply nothing.
And loving someone, it means we believe them right? got nothing to fear for loving them, no insecurities,
no worry at all about the relationship, and where its going.
Loving someone, means we fully understand him/her isn't it? we know what they want, what they hate, what they love, what they scared.
And loving someone, we supposed to be happy right? happy when they're happy, sad when they're sad.
And being loved and loving back the same person, it means we aren't supposed to be lonely right?
If loving is really like that, i think i've never actually love anyone before.
I never experience that, loving, and being loved like that. No matter how many relationship i already had before.
Don't get me wrong. I dont expect someone to really love me now. Dont, just dont. I want someone to love me, when i already become the best kind of me. So i don't need to change anymore. I don't want to hear "you have to be like this, and to be like that".